When I took the position as Parish Mental Health Ministries Coordinator, which is a mouthful to say, I also quickly realized it is a handful. Handful in the best sense of the word, I was offered to lead a ministry full of love, hope and learning. Even though I was familiar with the program, I had a lot to learn. That familiarity was a higher view and I have now taken a deep dive into the mission. To start, I decided to meet with Parish Team Leads, to gain insight and knowledge from those on the ground. I learned a lot and one item that came up in the meetings was the stain of stigma.
Reaching those that could be helped by the various programs offered has been successful for those who attend, growing attendance is a problem. Various reasons were discussed but the stigma stain was considered an ongoing problem. Going to share conversations, and donuts after Mass is one thing, but going to a course offered on an aspect of mental health brings thoughts of being judged. One might even think that their presence will become a conversation piece for others. Stigma raises its ugly head.
The word stigma has bad connotations: a sense of being judged, separated and perhaps ignored by others. People often feel the sting of stigma inwardly, feeling perhaps a mark is visibly upon them. The plural of the word stigma is stigmata, the one for which ministry exists displayed the stain of stigma. Let’s all keep that in our hearts when we meet others. We are all one step away from a crisis that could send us spiraling out of control and needing a community to help us straighten our course.
Classes and presentations are offered by parishes in the KC area on various topics of mental health. Currently we have 12 parishes offering information and support on mental health issues. The events can be found on the Parish Mental Health page of the Catholic Charities of Kansas City-St. Joseph website. Several of the parishes have developed an association to better share information and resources. We are striving to provide support and resources to those in need. Diagnosis and treatment will not be offered, but valuable support and information is available.
I would like to take a moment to highlight an upcoming program occurring on Jan 21, 2025 at 6:30 pm at St. John LaLande in Blue Springs, MO. This event is an example of parishes coming together to provide a network of shared resources. In this case, an East of KC Association of parishes. Support and sharing resources is a key aspect of this ministry. The National Institute of Mental Health estimates that 1 in 5 adult experience a mental health illness each year. Don’t stay in the shadow, there is light being offered to help provide resources and support. Our ministry offers this light with the heart of Jesus, the brightest light of all.
By Linda Hopkins, Parish Mental Health Ministry Coordinator
MHM@ccharities.com